By: Saadia White “The Amazine Amazon”
Feel like you are standing still, steadily moving through life but not going anywhere? Just Stuck… Stuck in your marriage, Stuck in a friendship, relationship, Stuck in your career not seeing any progress or self development….
You are callously moving through life… your “Eyes Wide Open”, but still BLIND to the overall process of how to move through to the next phase of your journey
A journey that while on it somewhere, somehow you become stuck “STUCK IN A MUCK” is what I call this…
The definition of “STUCK” : Not going anywhere, Fixed in a particular position or unable to move or be moved…Becoming fixed or jammed in one place as a result of an obstruction
Being unable to Progress with a task or find the answer or solution to something.
Remaining in a Static condition, failing to Progress
And before you know it purpose and meaning become a forgotten memory
Self-care and personal goals are almost nonexistent.
And You have become so detached from your family, friends, co-workers …. Life in general
Does any of this resonant with you???
Well, you are certainly not alone…
A recent study by “Lifehack” found that 69% of people feel trapped in the same ole routine.
And only 3 out of 10 people are happy with their lives!!
So, what is Obstructing you? Distracting you?
Causing you to feel STUCK?
What do you need to do to become unstuck?
Let me share with you when there was a time in my life that I felt Stuck, and my life truly felt as though I were getting nowhere!
My business had come to a standstill and I truly began to RESENT Social Media…
Umm and it was not because I wasn’t receiving any attention or the “Likes” or “Love” …
I was receiving quite a bit of that, but then why did I feel as though I were no longer moving…ELEVATING??
Becoming Unstuck was not an easy task I had to first acknowledge I had a problem, that something clearly was wrong.
Often, we just continue to routinely go through life never acknowledging that we have a problem.
STUCK in a routine that has perpetually become our downfall!
After acknowledging there is a problem the next step is identifying where that Stuck zone is in your life
(the root cause of your pain) …
Is it within your personal life (marriage, health, a friendship) or career life?
Once you have identified what your Stuck zone is, it is now time for you to confront your Stuckness with a Moving into ACTION PLAN.
Your MIA plan should start with a list of the things you fully enjoyed doing before you became Stuck…
A list of all the negatives you started to feel right before you realized you were in Stuck mode…
Ask yourself these questions:
Have you built your life on other people’s premises?
Are you truly living your life for you?
What are your Strengths, Weaknesses?
Do you need an accountability coach/ trainer, mentor/ peer support to get you moving again?
Part of your (MIA plan) is to create a task list from small to big, always work small too Big.
I realized when I made my task list it was so much easier to begin with my smaller task and get those accomplished first.
One Task at a Time…One Step at a Time
You will start to see Progress…
Progress will bring about Production and Production will lead to Results!
Remember to always find the “why” in your situation knowing your “why” will bring about a deeper connection towards yourself. You will begin to live with “INTENTION”, “FULFILLMENT”.
Two words that helped me to create boundaries around the person that mattered MOST… ME!
Another part of the (MIA plan) were looking at the areas of my life where I felt used and undervalued…
I created healthy boundaries for myself, knowing when to say No…knowing who or what I wanted to be a part of Me. My life mattered and I needed to feel that for myself!
So lastly, look at your goals…Big and Small, don’t become overwhelmed if you are not where you want to be…remember One Step, One Goal at a Time!
You didn’t get Stuck overnight and you will not get Unstuck overnight.
It is a Process…a Mindset and you have plenty of room to grow as I DID!!
Here is the fun part… but it will take some work on your behalf…
Are you Ready? Willing? To become better than what you have become?
I already know you are, and the best part is you do not have to do this alone if you so choose not to…
I can help you become a better you, become a more fulfilled and Intentional you…
All you need to take is One step forward to Activate the Superpower you possess inside of you…
Let’s schedule some time together to discuss what that life looks like for you…
I Believe in you, I believe that you have what it takes to create a better life… the best life for yourself.
No matter what, you CAN GET UNSTUCK!
Now Lets get to Work!